tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3025227960707001297.post6726568524187845356..comments2023-06-25T19:20:33.502+10:00Comments on Upside Down Under: Leaving gracefullyBenjamin Adyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03325520894212279303noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3025227960707001297.post-22549254558871155532010-06-20T00:55:46.031+10:002010-06-20T00:55:46.031+10:00The gracefulness of any separation depends on both...The gracefulness of any separation depends on both parties involved. I suppose the onus is on the initiating party to endeavor to start the process with as much grace as possible, but it still depends on the other half to put their best foot forward.<br /><br />But that doesn't always happen. Often the passions are too strong, the need to leave is too immediate for feelings and emotions to remain calm. And things escalate. And what might have started as a difference of philosophy becomes much more personal and intense.<br /><br />The best you can do is the best you can do. After that it is out of your hands.Alhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07453255551532736555noreply@blogger.com